It’s never too late to explore new sensations or open yourself up to fresh intimate experiences. With simplicity and confidence, Valti Secret’s sexual wellness expert walks you through how to understand your desires safely — and with maximum pleasure.
Internal or External Stimulation: How Do You Choose?
Your first sextoy choice is deeply personal.
If your fantasies involve penetration, you may enjoy:
- A dildo — ideal for simple vaginal penetration, without vibrations.
- A vibrator — offers both penetration and different vibration modes for more intense sensations.
If penetration feels too intrusive for now, start with external toys designed for the clitoris, available with vibrations or air-pulse suction.
Before using any toy:
Always read the manual to understand how it works.
Then let your body guide you — experiment with vibration speeds, pressure, insertion depth, or different erogenous zones. The goal is simple: enjoy yourself and discover what truly excites you.
Sextoys: Better Alone or With a Partner?
It depends entirely on what you want.
- For solo pleasure, you don’t need anyone else — a toy becomes your private moment of relaxation and discovery.
- For couples, certain accessories can add spark, excitement, and deeper intimacy.
Example: the vibrating penis ring
Placed at the base of your partner’s penis, the ring maintains blood flow and helps prolong the erection. Its vibrations stimulate the clitoris with each movement, creating intense, shared pleasure.
Anal Pleasure: Is It Safe to Explore?
Curious about anal play? Starting with a small anal plug is a safe and comfortable option. Choose a size suitable for beginners and go slowly. Begin with gentle massages around the anus, allowing the muscles to relax and open naturally.
Important tip:
The anus does not lubricate itself.
If your plug is made of silicone, always use water-based lubricant for comfort and safety.
Are Sextoys Dangerous?
Not if you listen to your body.
Never force penetration or continue if you feel pain. You don’t need the largest sizes to experience pleasure — smaller toys can be just as enjoyable thanks to vibrations, suction, or pressure patterns.
Your comfort and wellbeing come first.
How Do You Clean a Sextoy Properly?
Proper cleaning after every use is essential. Residue and bacteria can build up quickly, and hygiene is key for your health.
You can use:
- A specialized sextoy cleaning spray (often sold with the product)
- Or simply warm water and mild soap
A clean toy lasts longer and protects your intimate health — a must for every woman exploring sensual wellness.
